Developing World Problem 4: Keeping in touch with American loved ones

A problem I had anticipated before I even left was keeping up with loved ones in the United States regularly. I knew the internet would not be very reliable (it is actually faster than I expected but also more intermittent, find more information here)  That’s a big reason I started the blog, because I knew people would be less likely to email me, even if they were interested, than to simply go to a website and read about my happenings.

However, my American roommate, Marcella, came with her iPhone to keep in touch with people. Although it was not unlocked and she couldn’t use it as her primary phone in Rwanda, she was still able to use Facetime, Skype, Mo+, iMessage, Whatsapp, and other apps to help keep in touch.  I’ll admit I was filled with the most jealousy when we went into the capital and would encounter internet. She could go on wifi with her phone and chat with friends and family, while I did not have my computer (nor did I ever wish to carry it around) so I was out of luck. 

My first picture with an iPhone. I love it because no on even notices I'm taking it. Although admittedly, I am in a very upscale place where they wouldn't get very excited if I was.

As a side note, it was also much easier to not attract a ton of attention when taking pictures because it is just a phone.

After I expressed my admiration for the smart little device for about the millionth time, she suggested I look to buy one in Rwanda, not expecting I would actually take that advice to heart.  But I right away started looking, wondering why I hadn't thought of it myself. 

It was a little confusing to me though, I was pretty anti-smart phone before this. I think they distract people from living in the moment, increase impatience, and make them too reliant on an external source rather than trusting themselves.  And my biggest beef with them is that in the process of trying to be more connected with others, you end up isolating yourself.

However, I wanted that connection with my friends and family and was not getting it at all at this time. So I found someone selling an iPhone and immediately contacted her, eventually buying the device.  And so far it has been awesome! It is factory unlocked so I can simply slip in my sim card and use it as an actual phone. I’ve been able to talk to people I haven’t had a full conversation with in months.

I’ll admit it was at first a bit of a disappointment. I’d always envisioned perfect internet at the coffee shops in Kigali when watching Marcella. However, it turns out Wi-Fi goes out every few minutes, which is extremely annoying when you are trying to add an app or register the device.  My advice to anyone coming to the developing world is to get a smart phone and set it up BEFORE you come.

Anyways, if anyone wants to chat with me, I am now more available! Get in touch!